I 32F have been seeing this guy 30M casually and he keeps mentioning threesomes and worst of all a step mom and step daughter fantasy. I don’t have kids but he asks me things like if you had a daughter would you share her with me. And I’m like ew no that’s disgusting. And he claims the daughter would need to be 18 but I still get bad vibes. He’s really good in bed but this situation is really turning me off now. I guess I just want to know what people’s thoughts are about this.

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  2. Bottomline: if the vibes are bad, that’s enough to stop seeing this guy. It’s not complicated my friend, just leave.

  3. This guy is probably too deep into weird porn stuff. I would end it immediately. Well someone is so open about that kind of stuff, chances are it might snowball into pedophillia.

  4. Too much pornhub. Literally the front page of pornhub is stepdaughter porn, stepbrother, stepmom, etc.

    It’s becoming “mainstream” to be into incest so in THAT REGARD he might just be influenced by pop culture porn fantasies, and he could potentially just think it’s normal.

    That being said, if he wants 3sums and you don’t, it’s better to get out now, because he will never be satisfied with your sex life and it will cause resentment.

  8. The only thing freaky about this is he’s telling you about it. Most guys don’t speak of such fantasies.

  9. As someone who has been asked if my daughter would join us in the bedroom I automatically block them. I would tell him to put down the porn and go touch some grass and then I would block him.

  11. Dude needs to stop watching porn holy fuck.

    Also you should just bounce, the whole point of a FWB is that there are no strings

  13. this is so disgusting and as another commenter mentioned, potentially dangerous

    also you’re 32 how is he expecting you to have an “18 year old daughter” …. he’s a freak

  14. Run. You dont need to take the trip to epstien Island to know thats where you’re headed.

  15. I’m with you, incest kink is not for me

    It’s fine to move on when you realise you’re not compatible

  16. This is FWB, not a relationship. It’s easy to walk away and find another FWB that doesn’t give you the eww factor.

  17. Time to move on. It’s just a FWB. He’s creeping you (justifiably). Time to find another causal fling.

  19. Fuckin yuck. Not only would I stop banging his lame ass I’d also stop being friends with him.

  20. Listen to your gut. It’s telling you:

    * he’s freaking you out
    * his fantasies cross your boundaries
    * he’s giving you bad vibes
    * what he wants or needs, you find disgusting
    * his desires to sleep with your imaginary daughter turn you off

    You don’t need to know what we think, because you already know what YOU think and feel!

    Best advice I can give you is to please listen to your inner voice. Great sex is amazing, but it doesn’t have a side of severe ICK.

  21. If that’s not a red flag, I really don’t know what is! Had a FWB once, and it was all fun and game until she calles me “Daddy!” …ohhh,ehhh…all right! I have laundrytime so…see ya! Never again!

  24. This sounds like some porn obsession to me. You can’t open pornhub these days without some step sister/daughter/mom kind of stuff front and centre. Personally it’s not my cup of tea.

  26. I would say by even continuing any kind of sexual relationship with this man, that you’re making these requests something that you’re accepting of to some degree.

    Down the road there may be a moment where he uses the whole, “you’ve known this about me the whole time.” reasoning for excusing some disgusting behavior. I would say end it. Shouldn’t be too hard to find a guy who isn’t an open degenerate to someone he is in a casual relationship with.

  27. Starts talking about fucking your potential daughter… time to kick him to the curb, there are fantasies that are hot and plausible and there are fantasies that just cross a line..

  28. Porn has ruined society and people. It sounds like you know where your moral line is, do you really want to go down that road?

  30. Reminds me of when Jared Fogle kept asking his “gf” who was an undercover reporter if he could meet her kids. Even if your fwb isn’t a pedo he’s definitely a creep.

  32. If you are going to pursue any FWB situation, you need to learn to self advocate and be clear about your wants/needs/dislikes

    “I am not interested in this scenario/kink at all and I won’t want to discuss it again”

    Worst case scenario you aren’t FWB anymore. But guess what? There isn’t a shortage of dick out there.

    In this case, I think I may end things regardless. As this is a really odd conversation to have with someone. It’s one thing to watch porn about it. It’s a pretty popular category. Which is odd but whatever I guess. But to actually want to do this and to have repeated conversations about it is very gross to me.

    My thoughts are…. There are not a lack of men who will fuck you. Find another.

  33. Red flag 🚩! Abort mission!!! No dick is worth it. Sex with your daughter fantasy??? No thank you sir.

  34. “I still get bad vibes”

    listen to your gut and get out. There are tons of men out there that would love to be FWB with you who won’t give you creepy vibes. Dump this guy and find someone else.

  35. He watches too much porn and is too stupid to think such situations are not real. Personally I don’t even get why someone would even consider such things arousing even in fantasy. Bottom line is if he is so unintelligent and so unintuitive in this situation , how dumb and what integrity does he lack in other parts of his life ?? Grow up and move on

  38. Porn… porn is what’s going on. He’s probably a pretty normal guy, just need to bring him down to Earth a bit. Step daughter/mom porn is probably the most popular genre these days, he’s seen to much of it, the line between fantasy and reality is a bit blurred and he’s comfortable enough to share it with you… that’s all.

  40. sounds like maybe he’s fantasizing about porn videos, but not all fantasies should be realities

  41. A pedophile who can barely contain himself. Too many options out there to be putting up with that.

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