The thing is I’m tired of meeting guys just to
Have sex. I actually want to get to
Know them emotionally but he and I only
Been out on one dinner date and then had sex on an off 5-6 months until I just didn’t want to. I want to get to know these guys and to me once we have sex too soon the magic is gone and he’s boring. This happened with two other guys . I have dated and been around 3 other guys I didn’t have sex with but they keep trying to get BJ’s out of me etc
How do I lay out my expectations. On a subconscious level and unconscious level I’m too trusting of guys and I have to go
Back to my drawing bored of safety tips before sex
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Work on boundaries and being upfront about what you want with these guys. Many guys like sweet talking into getting what they want but it’s important for you to be firm. Be clear and direct in your communication. Say something like, “I’m not interested in casual sex. I’m looking for a meaningful connection.” If they persist, walk away. You deserve someone who respects your boundaries and values your emotional and physical being. You are not obligated to compromise your values or comfort for anyone else