I (23m) had sex with this girl (21f) for the first time and it was going well up until the actual insertion part of sex. I couldn’t get my dick inside of her and then I think I got nervous about that because I started to get soft which made it harder to put it inside. I just ate her our/ fingered her till I got hard again which makes me think it was the failure to insert which made me soft but idk (never really had an issue with this). Anyways I do end up getting inside of her and it was good. I pulled out a few time to switch things up and each time I tried to go back in it was a similar process of it being hard to put in and me getting semi-soft. Anyways she says she has something going on with her pelvic floor and has to use tools to help her with that which has made it hard for her to have sex in that past. I did end up coming inside her. Overall the sexual experience was good but I was disappointed by my performance.
Any advice on how to deal with this pelvic floor thing and also keep me hard while trying to insert? I really like her and we have been on a few dates and would like some advice. Thanks!
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I think she got the condition called vaginismus,my girlfriend’s also gets triggered sometimes. Have a conversation with her and make her feel comfortable…and if she still isn’t,then ask her to visit a health professional. It’s not you who is not able to enter,it’s her vagina’s muscles which is not letting you in.Maybe because either of some level of trust issues or you are having sex where there are chances of risk of getting caught?
And try to refrain from watching porn and instead do breathing exercises in the morning with kegel excercises.That would help you stay hard.Did u masterbate the same day u had sex with her?