Good day folks yesterday I talked to a girl on tinder and the conversation got pretty steamy real quick, she mentioned that she likes giving blowjobs, but she was a little uncomfortable when partners go down on her, because she becomes very self conscious about her self. Are there any in here that have any good advice for making her less self conscious when I go down on her?
Note, she is coming over tonight and it will be the first time we see eachother.
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Honestly my fwb has the same issue , I just don’t. I just kiss around it and finger it or dry fuck it. I don’t push it , when she is ready or id she wants it I do it. No need to honestly.
It is really ALWAYS a very bad idea to meet directly in the flat of another person, but I guess it’s too late in this case.
And getting to know somebody slowly and in a neutral location would have actually been the perfect beginning to make someone feel comfortable. Otherwise you should try your best to make it a natural situation and gain her trust.
Personally: Give her LOTS of compliments. “Wow you look delicious” “I can’t wait to tasty you” “you really have a pretty pussy” ect. And start with lots of touching around, before diving in head first. Remember to tell her afterwards how much you enjoyed it, how nice she tasted or that you can’t wait to do it again. And don’t pressure her to finish, or do it for too long the first time. That is what makes it for me anyways