So me (38f) and my partner (46m) have been together for a year. Prior, he was single for 3 years. I’ve had some pretty long stretches myself. We both live alone, no children, just used to our space being our space, with our own forms of minor OCD. Anyway, I’m not at all clingy, but we only see each other on the weekend; usually a Saturday evening to Sunday afternoon. We live 45 minutes from each other so not that far. He completely refuses to find the time to meet me during the week. I’ve always been willing to go to him/his town and either spend the night and we both leave for work early in the am or I would just go back home that same night. It’s what I’ve offered over and over. Now I’m not working so I have even more flexibility to make it as easy as possible for him. He just says “I would never ask you to do that” or something like “I just respect your space”. It’s clearly not what I want. I want more face time. We are in love. We’ve met the family several times. It’s been a year. And now our sex life is starting to suffer. We need more time together. Not sure what to think or do at this point.

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