Should this be something I should be looking into? What about when just using toys/fingers. This might sound silly, but I’m really nervous about the whole poop part of butt play even though I really like the feeling of being filled.

6 comments

  1. Yes.

    Anal sex is not like what you watch on porn

    Sometimes there can be a little bit of a mess but cleaning up before hand does help

  2. With several women dozens of times all together, I’ve never been a poop. Douching is a waste of time and effort. The rectum can be wiped clean with a lubricated finger before sex, no more is necessary.

  3. Necessary is a strong word. Depending on your fiber intake and many other things you might be fine. But you probably won’t be entirely clean without cleaning up at least a bit, so if you are scared of it, just use a douche.

  4. I prefer to clean up beforehand. What you don’t need to do is give yourself a full flush enema. There’s a little bend in the bowels and really unless your guy/toy is massive it’s not going beyond that bend. So just a little quick squirt in there with an enema bottle will flush out the important bit.

    With fingers I usually don’t prepare as it’s always spur of the moment. With toys if I’m alone I won’t prep with a partner though I will clean myself up first.

  6. No. I frequently have anal sex with my wife and she’s never douched. At worst, I’ve gotten a few tiny specks of poo on my penis, but Im washing it off after anyway, so who cares. Unless you’ve recently had some digestive issues, there isn’t going to be a big mess. I think the douching that porn stars do is more about being clean enough for A2M, but I don’t think many people do that in real life…

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