I don’t want to go for the simple dinner date, I want to do something different, but I haven’t got a clue where to start.

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  2. Take her to a petting zoo so that she can feed pellets from a gumball machine to baby goats. It will activate her maternal instincts and make sexual intercourse more likely to occur upon commencement of a successful date.

  3. It must be interactive. Talking to each other, or doing a thing. Movies are a fucking terrible early date, because just sitting there in the dark with almost no interaction does not help you get to know the other person.

    Minature golf is good. Museums, art gallerys, tech exhibits, county fairs, hell even go to an anime convention and see what weird shit you can find. Just be sure that it’s something where you’re talking and interacting with each other throughout.

  4. I’ll need more details.

    Are you male or female?

    Is the person you are taking on this date a man?

    Are outdoor activities weather appropriate where you are?

    Do you both enjoy physically demanding activities?

    How old are you both?

    I could suggest a skiing class but if you’re a 75 year old man taking a sedentary lady on a date in Australia where its currently summer, that’s not going to be a good suggestion.

  5. A first date, and really any date but especially a first date… you should be doing the cool stuff you’d be doing anyway. A few reasons:

    1) First dates flake a lot. This way, when they flake, you’ll still have something fun to do instead of sitting at home bumming out.

    2) Women want to see you in your environment, and you’ll be more conident.

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    “But I don’t have fun things I do.” — then you’re not ready to date yet. Get some hobbies instead.

  6. Scenic drive into a heavily wooded area after dark, park the car and ask if he can wants to see you knife collection, then before he can answer say it doesn’t matter you’re gonna see it anyway

    lol

  7. I like alcohol + events. Like a trivia night, a karaoke night, etc. a few drinks helps people loosen up and get over any nerves, and the event part encourages interaction that goes beyond simple conversation.

  8. Go bowling. It’s a fun activity, not competitive, is more memorable than just eating and it’s a relaxed and safe environment. You can always get food there or go somewhere afterwards if you want peace.

    And I feel like you’d get a good sense of who they are from how much they enjoy themselves.

  9. Walk in a place that’s lively and cheery and pretty. Instead of a full meal, an inexpensive tasty snack. Talk and listen and see how your vibes align.

  13. Eating on a first date was always hard for me because I’d be nervous and have no appetite. With Christmas coming up, look for Christmas festivals you guys can go to. Those would be fun for an early date.

  16. Girls love food. Especially snacks

    If you remove the food you lose a good avenue for m giving her a good time

    Maybe skip dinner and do a “dessert date”

  17. I personally love arcades, and they’re a big part of my life, so I always pitch that idea first. So far, it’s been pretty successful!

  19. This is a nice time to go see Christmas lights (could be driving or a walking tour depending on what’s available in your area).

    Maybe start w/a dinner, followed by lights and hot chocolate or coffee. Ice skating could be fun if that’s an option and something you both enjoy.

    Food truck parks are cool if you have that in your area. Ours usually have lots of trucks and live music.

    If she likes beer, local breweries could be cool. Some have board games, pool, live music, outdoor games like cornhole or mini golf, etc.

    Maybe look up trivia nights in your area. Those are like an extended dinner where there’s fun and games, you learn a good bit about the other person, have some laughs, time to chat between rounds, etc. Plenty of topics to revisit later to carry the conversation if needed too.

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