(Sorry for my bad English)
I met a guy in 2016. We only went on casual dates, it lasted almost a year. Anyway, our paths took us to different places. Ok…
As time went by, he started dating a very strange girl. She was exaggeratedly jealous, liked to fight other girls (who are my friends), in short… she had a dubious personality. Really!
BUUUT, They broke up. (No surprises here)
I had gone away to live somewhere else, but I came back. On my return, he was interested in talking to me again (after 8 years!!!) And we’ve been seeing each other for a couple of months (2 months i guess) now, in 2023.
I met his MOTHER and his SISTER.
But one thing bothers me: he doesn’t text me, only sometimes. He sends videos on Instagram once in a while. At the beginning of the week he calls me to go out at the weekend, But when the day comes, he disappears and I have to ask. The excuse he uses is that he didn’t know I wanted Go out with him. Well, in the end we manage to see each other.
He’s 28, I’m 25. And maybe hes giving me mixed signals.
Our story is very long, but it really bothers me that he was an incredible boyfriend with such a horrible person. And here I am, being affectionate and understandable, receiving this kind of treatment.
The woman cheats and he gives her flowers, and I get “maybe we’ll see each other later”. HOW DOES THAT WORK? I wish I was a flower and lived on photosynthesis so I wouldn’t have to understand certain things.
1- Is it worth talking to him about our situation? Or about what’s bothering me?
2- is it better if I just disappear and wait for him to do something decent?
3- is it better to be toxic, since apparently he likes doubtful women?
We match so well, I just wanted the peace of a quiet love haha
1 comment
move on, obviously