Me 29 (F) meeting a potential Man age 31 for an arranged marriage. Initially he pursued me and I acknowledged his effort and started talking to him. After a month and half, i got to know that he is also talking to other girls for marriage and I am ok with it but it did hurt as he did not tell me this.
But suddenly his behavior is concerning to me at this point I have started to like the guy. He keep asking me if I Love him and I keep saying i like him i had known him for a month and a half i couldn’t fall in love so easily. Now, he doesn’t take any initiative to talk so I also don’t bother him because i don’t want to chase anyone except Peace. . Now, he doesn’t take any initiative to talk so I also dont bother him because i dont want to chase anyone except Peace .
TL :DR What should I do Plz, tell me how can i control my emotions tbh I like him
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Do you have to go through with the arranged marriage? It doesn’t sound like he’s ready to stop dating. Also, you probably like him more because he’s not available. In general – is he a good person? So far it doesn’t sound like that to me. He met you with the intention of marrying you in the future, yet he continues to date other women and he’s not up front with you about this. He sounds like a bad person.