Edit: Please do not reply on my chat, I will ignore you. If you have something to say, say it here.
Okay, this might serve as an update on my bf who supposedly can’t come with a condom on. Turns out the condom was probably never an issue.
We were showering together a few weeks ago and things got intimate (even thought our height difference makes it really hard to even kiss standing up, so only he came but that’s no problem) then he was all soft and smiling in that post orgasm bliss when he said “I’m happy I don’t need to cum now when I actually fuck you later.”
I got very confused so asked him what he meant and he told me he has never came during sex, only after. He says the only way he can cum is if he masturbates after, and that makes him feel bad because it takes a long time, sometimes. I replied “I thought this was an ‘us’ issue and sex with me was just bad” but he denied and said it had always been this way.
I suggested it could be something psychological, but I know he keeps a lot of his feelings to himself and is afraid of going to therapy, so exploring that is not an option. Might also be because I’m sort of the only person he’s ever had the level of intimacy we have (not in a sex-life way but on a personal-level way).
I don’t know what to think or do anymore.