Ok so about a month ago I had a one night with a guy from Tinder. He said he was looking for fwb and I agreed (I didn’t tell him it was my first time tho) and after the fact he stayed over and left in the morning. Basically what advice I’m asking is how to get ride of my anxiety of seeing him again. I’ve been putting off seeing him cause it makes me really anxious 🥴 He was nice and all (kinda wish he would have lasted s bit longer than 15 minutes and made me cum tho) but it was fun. But he keeps writing to me and it makes me so anxious to see him again that I’m just avoiding him🥲
So if anyone has any advice for me please let me know cause I’d like to see him again. (Idk if it’s the pressure to have sex when we see each other again that makes me scared or not cause I react like this too when a guy says we could see each other😬)
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You are an adult, if you don’t want to see him just be upfront and say hey I think I need some space for a little and I’ll let you know when I’m ready, if you want something then you can decide to do it and if not you have the right to say no, while trying not to hurt someone’s feelings is good that shouldn’t come at the expense of feeling anxiety
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