I’m interested in hearing what YOU would do.
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a) Would be too shy to send a like and would you wait and see if they send you one?
b) Would you go for it, send the like and potentially risk being rejected and things being awkward in real life?
c) Or would you talk/flirt with them IRL, whenever you see them next and take it from there? Perhaps ask them out IRL, if you feel like you have the green light?
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I know that we should all probably go with option B and take the risk because life is short, etc.
But, what would you actually do?
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what is hinge
I would tell that person I’m interested in them instead of hitting them up on an app
Depends on how well I knew them, how I knew them and what mutual acquaintances/ friends we had in common.
* Someone in work? Definitely not. I don’t shit where I eat.
* Someone I knew from a previous job or uni but haven’t spoken to them in a year? Sure. why the fuck not.
It’s not about being ‘too shy’ for me. It would be about the repercussions.
I wouldn’t be on Hinge, but if I somehow saw them on there, I would immediately lose respect for them.
Hit on the person in real life with a background knowledge they are looking for something
I would friendzone or fuckzone them because I’m not actually interested in anything serious with a woman who uses hookup apps.
Dude I always swipe right/ like if I know them. It’s easier with someone you’ve already had conversations with. Or you could turn it into “lol you caught me” type of joke if she’s not into it. If I know them from work or something though I absolutely do not engage.