I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months. He’s from England and I’m from the states so we haven’t been able to meet each other irl yet. He’s my dream guy and I absolutely adore him, but he hasn’t responded to my text in a week and it’s worrying me. He said he would be busy with uni until Christmas break and I get that, but is he unable to send a text? maybe I’m overthinking or being needy, but he’s usually very attentive and affectionate so I don’t know what is going on. If anyone has any advice let me know. We haven’t known each other for that long but I don’t know what I would do without him.
tl:dr what do I do when my boyfriend hasn’t responded to my text in a week
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Take the hint :(. You are so young, you have so many years of romance and relationships ahead of you. Make sure you date yourself first. Love and know yourself, set your expectations and boundaries with others accordingly. You are worth being respected and valued by a partner – don’t settle for anything less.
You consider this him breaking up with you. Ghosting you at best. If he isn’t dead/injured he can send a quick “sorry I’m busy” text.
You also need to look at this as a boundary to set in place. Not making contact with your partner is rude and if you allow it, it will continue. Set the tone that the behavior won’t be tolerated.
He’s done… no one is that busy even with finals.