I was talking to this guy for about 3 weeks, 2 dates with intense chemistry. (We have known each other for years)
He was texting me 24/7 saying how much he liked me all the time, I had a really good feeling about it
He suddenly went ghost overnight and ignored me for a day for me to then wake up to a paragraph…
He said he’s seeing someone else and it’s at the stage where he can’t be talking to others anymore.. BUT this is where it’s weird
He then goes on to say
“I don’t know if I’m making the right decision”
“I feel like I am really going to regret doing this and losing you”
“You are the most genuine person I’ve met”
Like sorry??????? I am so confused, and the poor other girl. To me I’d rather be in my situation then have someone “chose me” but feel like he will regret it?
I replied wishing him all the best. I feel like I could’ve reacted. I just don’t understand his message and contradictions?
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Honestly he sounds very indecisive and probably trying to keep you on the hook in case things don’t work out with the other person.
My advice, don’t pursue anything with this guy, don’t be anyone’s second choice!
He wants to keep you in reserve. It’s like the friend zone only the person he is really chasing is a vulture when it comes to his famale relationships and starving them off in create a false sense of security.
He made a choice. It was the other person. Now you have to make a choice.
I recommend making him walking through hell and back if he wants another chance. Then send him back through hell for your favorite ice cream.
He sounds like he’s just trying to be nice and not break it to you too hard. He’s not interested and he’s not choosing you. That’s all you really need to focus on. Find someone who will chose you over someone else.
Some men can’t even get a Tinder match or a date. And other men are having a rotation of women.