This girl I’m seeing sent me a video of her masturbating. Drove me wild. She hinted that she’d like me to send her something similar. Question is: how, as a man, do I do this and make it actually look good? Just whip it out and go to town while holding my phone recording? Dry or lubed? I have no idea what girls think is attractive lol. Thanks!
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If she’s asking for a dick video , something I think is hot is maybe the bulge in your boxers, then you unveiling it and a little jerk
Or you cumming to the video she sent you, that would finish me so haha x
I am not a woman, so take my advice with a grain of salt. But I think you should not:
* take just a dick pick
* take pictures just from your POV
I will suggest the following:
* make erotic your whole body. Your hands, your arms, and your back are likely to be sexy for your GF.
* Look for Maggie Girls in IG. She has some ideas for poses (you will have to scroll a lot)
* Play with the light. Use shades to highlight the textures of the body.
* Be suggestive but not explicit. Maybe you can take pictures of yourself with sexy underwear, showing that you are hard, but without showing your dick.
* Combine shots. You can take detail planes, first shots.
God bless such women LOL. I video called my girlfriend one day and had her watch me masturbate and she loooved it; even got in the act herself; it became a habit. Otherwise, get a boner, then place your phone at the right angle, press record and jerk off for one minute. give her a teaser and see if she likes
Make a video of you chopping wood.
If you don’t mind recording your face, do a “Beautiful Agony” style masturbation video. Selfie view your camera to record just your chest and face, holding it in one hand, and masturbating with the other hand. Make sure to moan, or dirty talk, how much you wish it were her with you. I’ve done this with my lady partners and it’s always been a huge hit. They’re less into dick pics and videos, and more into the passion, desire, lust, and seeing the guy they have the hots for make sexy faces.
If you’re a quiet, generally non-responsive guy during sex, this can also help you practice and get more comfortable with vocalizing, moans, responses, etc. which, let me tell you, every woman I’ve been with LOVES.
Sexy is in the eye of the beholder. Clean your room. Make sure there isn’t clutter in the video. Make sure you are showered. The rest, will take care of itself.
You could also just one up her with phone sex
Me and my girl did this and for her I used my Fleshlight. I lubed up and made sure to do just like I do with her, talk plenty, move slowly, tease the clit on the Fleshlight, etc. lighting is key as well, too dark and you can’t see, too bright and you’ll give an unflattering view. Don’t be afraid to cast her video on your tv while you masturbate so that she knows she’s the one getting you off.
Selfie mode, show more of your body, start slow. Nut vid with sound ON