I 19M recently started dating a 19F and we have been getting along really well etc and are very honest about everything to each other, including our thoughts on s*x and other intimate things. We both sort of said from the start that we feel comfortable waiting a bit longer rather than rushing into having s*x as we both agree that it should be something more special than just when we are horny. So at this point all we have done is hooked up. Recently she started saying she feel’s uncomfortable even doing that and wants to “slow things down” even more. I originally had mutual feelings about this, but as time goes on I can help but notice my attraction for her starting to feel more like a regular friend than my girlfriend and I think the lack of intimacy is playing a role in this. She also has this idea that intimacy isn’t about a connection and it only happens when people are horny.
What would be some ideas to help solve this or talk to her about this.
Thanks everyone:)
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Life’s too short for that. If she won’t put out, find someone that does.
sorry bro, she has no real intrinsic desire for you. You would be surprised that if she met the “right” guy, she would jump on him at any given chance as soon as possible. But she lets you wait for months… I really think you have to cut her off and not let her keep you around to get free attention. Focus your time on yourself and other women, plus you are only 19. Dont listen to whatever she is saying and just look on her actions. She sees you more of a friend already. Because trust me you will be surprised how horny and sexual women can or will be. But she isn’t for you, but mostly like will be for someone else. Just accept it and move on.