If you felt anxious about how much commitment marriage is, how did you deal with it? Did you eventually get married?

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1. When I was going through my divorce, there was a moment when my ex husband was relentlessly emotionally battering me in my own house and I thought “I will never put myself in a position for this to happen again.”

   And to me that meant I would never get married again. I felt really strongly about it.

   But then I met my now-fiancé. Our relationship is so healthy and makes my life better. He asked me one day if I still never wanted to get married again and I realized that I did want to be married to him because I feel safe, secure, stable and happy with him.

   I guess my answer of how I dealt with it is… consistency from my fiancé.

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