This is a serious question LMAO I’m just not really sure. I myself am a fat girl, and a virgin. I fluctuate between BMI 27 and 31, for reference. I don’t understand. Like do you have to do it strictly from behind? If the dude isn’t big enough how is he getting past your stomach to get it in? I’m not trying to be an ass, like I said I am fat myself, I just genuinely don’t understand. Is it unsettling when the stomach jiggles? What happens if the guy wants to EYO but you can’t spread your legs wide enough?? Like how awkward is that gonna be?? 😭 I’m confused 👎
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I think you might be over thinking it! I’m a heavier girly and haven’t really had any issue on my end. Bigger guys tend to struggle with me in doggy cause they can’t really reach it their fupa is thicker, if their belly sticks out more, or their not long enough. 🤭 EYO shouldn’t be an issue, they can get in their just fine. Angles for missionary can help, you know lay flat, pillow under your butt and do whatever feels most comfortable with your legs. Even other positions haven’t been an issue for me. I’m shorter, hourglass shape with a little tummy. Been with tall guys, thin guys, short guys, and fat guys.
My girlfriend has a BMI of 29 and she’s not even remotely fat. She has a cute jiggle on her stomach but her weight is mostly tits, ass, hips and thighs. Considering how close you are in BMI with my girlfriend I can’t imagine sex being even remotely difficult or anything to worry about. I’ve been with bigger ladies in the past and I think when they’re 220lbs or over is when it starts getting tricky and their stomachs get in the way or I can’t really find anything. I’m pretty confident you’ll have nothing to worry about.
My wife weighed more you and was only 5’4”, we had no problems with it. It just worked. It might have been harder if I was fat. And the jiggling was just part of it; we didn’t see it as bad. I think you are just worrying too much.