I am realizing many times I masturbate just out of opportunity (when I finaly get some alone time) and also because I would like to enjoy the feeling of an orgasm at that moment. However, my libido is usually pretty low, so many of those times I’m not actually feeling truly horny, so I just watch some porn and eventually I get aroused and I’m able to climax.
I used to be able to do this just fine and relatively quickly, but later my orgasms have faded and are noticeably weaker. I was wondering if I should wait until I’m really horny (but that never happens so I’m afraid I will have to wait forever) or maybe I’m getting desensitized to porn and can’t do it on demand anymore. Thoughts?