soooo this guy and i went on a few dates in april. i kinda ghosted him when i unfollowed him on insta and unmatched him from the dating apps. to be fair, i couldn’t tell if he was interested in me either. i was newly single so i was going on other dates and meeting people i was more interested in. he was def interested in the beginning and we were talking about having sex soon too. he also didnt reach out after i unfollowed and unmatched. i literally haven’t thought about him in months but all of a sudden, i can’t stop thinking about him!
i decided to randomly follow him on insta and he immediately accepted my request and followed me back. it’s been a week and i was hoping that he would reach out first but he hasn’t. i decided that i’ll message first but stuck on what to say!! a “hey, how are you doing?” kinda seems a bit too casual and awkward. i also can’t tell if he’s still interested but im also in my ‘do it for the plot’ era and im aware i don’t really have much to lose from messaging him. please help! :((