Too keep in short, i have been with my GF for over 3 years, she is my first everything when it comes to sex. She has had a couple of sexual partners before.
We have over the relationship openly talked about what we want in bed. But the last year and an half i have become more comfortable with myself, and want to try new things. And because i have been doing the “work” and giving pleasure, i wanted to try and relax more and receive.
But she never tries to change, even though she explicitly said she does not mind to for example give oral sex, but it always something in the way when i ask and she never takes the initiative to do something i have said i like.
I like to se her being pleasured, so i thought that went both ways, but i get nothing from our conversation about it, and it is even starting to effect is outside of the bedroom.
She is all about marriage, kids, buying house together, but i cant see that at all when we cant even figure out the bedroom stuff, any advice?