My husband(24M) and I(26F) have been married for 5 years. He cheated on me this August with a colleague, a week before I found out, he wanted to leave me because I was bothered by him being so close with his colleagues which were all female. They would go to carnivals together, and even planned a day trip to a city 2 hours away. Past forward, I begged him not to leave me. We worked it out, after a week, there was a carnival in our city, one of those friends walked past in front of us with her boyfriend, they ignored each other. I asked my husband if they were just friends why would they not greet each other, he said the girl was probably just shy. A few days after, I found sex messages between them. Turns out, when my husband would go out for a night drive to destress, they were seeing each other. And it all started months ago when she gave him a ride and i could not pick him up because i was tired from work, he asked her for sex. August they got emotionally developed and started having sex in our car. One of the text said “if i hadn’t met my wife we probably would be together” and the girl was making jokes about how he should have pulled out so we don’t have our daughter. Everything happened when I was working part-time, taking classes for nursing, taking care of him and our daughter, and taking care of my mom who had brain cancer surgery in 2022.. we tried to fix it, but I just couldn’t. After a month, I found a guy. He has been treating me good. Helping me as much as he could with my situation. My husband is furious about this, told me that I’m the one ruining our family, and now all of our family is upset at me. He told me I was just waiting for him to make a mistake so I can go back to being single and free. He would threaten to take everything away from me because he worked and I was a stay at home mom for four years and have nothing. He told me he has changed and made me think I was the one continuing to break our marriage and family, then I found out he is talking to a different girl. I know he still loves me, and is just very hurt about me being with another guy. But I don’t know if it is worth saving for our daughter, if I am in the wrong. I feel alone and I have no one to support me. I just need perspective on what is the right thing to do.