So i (f 21) been in a 2 and a half relationship and every time the holidays come around it’s like pulling teeth with my bf I’m not allowed to go to his place for holidays which is fine because he has family problems so i understand that.
But every year it seems like I go all out for holidays i don’t get the same energy. This year I invited him to my family for Christmas he agreed but here’s where things get tricky, last year I purchased him a Nike track suit which wasn’t cheap I like to go all out for people that I actually love.
He told me that he purchased me something but that his little brother took it from out of his room he said that he took it back from them and put it somewhere else in the house so January of this year rolls around and I asked him where the gift he brought me he then tells me that his mom has it now and was trying to give it to his grandma for her birthday,
needless to say I never received anything from him for Christmas because “someone always has my gift” I was thinking about getting him some sneakers he asked for and a ps5 and controller he also asked for. But I’m not sure if I should go all out like that because he never even asked what I wanted I’m also afraid of what has happened pass years.