I don’t really know what kind of help do I need but I need any help y’all can give me honestly…
I tend to get sex repulsed during intercourse, tend is an understatement I always get sex repulsed during intercourse and I think it’s related to not knowing if I’m being good at it or not.
For context I struggle with vaginismus which doesn’t help, like rn I can have intercourse and it’s not painful but every time I’m going to do the deed I get really anxious that it’s not going to work… I lost my virginity 6 months ago because I only knew that vaginismus was a thing when I already have a tried a million times, it doesn’t help that I’m borderpolar and get hypersexual and sex repulsed constantly but now that I’m thinking about it I think it’s because I don’t know if I’m good at it.
So idk help a girl out and give me tips or smth to ease my thoughts at least.
Sounds really pathetic but I’m feeling like I have no control over my body again and since I “solved” my vaginismus problem I didn’t think I would struggle with not being able to have a sex life and idk be a normal person…