21f and I’ve always been on the lookout for new friends. My hygiene, appearance, and social skills are fine. I’ve had some successes, but also some rejections. Two people have ghosted me. One of them thought I was being too pushy after sending her four snaps, and just blocked me. Another acted really weird in my apartment, overshared, and blocked me on everything afterwards. I’ve tried getting to know other people, and some people just wont give me a single chance. One of them said I had a weird vibe, and then cut me off and tried to ruin my reputation. Knew her for three weeks, and talked to her twice. Then I added someone on Snapchat for a class, and added the wrong person to the group chat. I thought it was kinda funny, but one of the guys left the group and blocked me. Now pretends I don’t exist. Never once talked to this man outside of class.
I just want friends. I’m not sure what I do to warrant people treating me like this, but I don’t try to hurt anybody.
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Sorry, I know it’s hard to make new friends, and I think you should just keep on doing what you’re doing and eventually you will meet people who easily become your friends and don’t act in ways you can’t understand. I’m sure the other people have their own sides of the story. But also on Snapchat some people are just weird and just block u for no reason lmao. I’ve had that happen to me, it’s just odd behavior lmao and not worth taking personally. Usually they add me back and give some odd excuse like “sorry I had to block u cuz I was going through a breakup” lmao makes no sense