Hello guys, soo I’ve been having a problem dating men… they always lose interest. I’m at that point with the current guy I’m talking to that I just feel sad and wondering if the reason it fizzes out is because .. I’m boring? This guy literally put in so much effort to go on a date with me and then as we start seeing each other more.. he starts texting me less.. less interested in what I have to say or how I’m doing. Now he just wants me to go to his house and dosent even bother planning dates for me. This was my last straw so I’m cutting him off. But you see it’s a pattern.. men tell me I’m beautiful and then go on dates with me and it fizzes out. I’m kind of an introverted/shy person and more of a listener than a speaker so maybe my personality isn’t shining through because I don’t speak enough or am not energetic.. in fact I’m quite soft spoken. Anyone going through similar experiences?
btw I met these men on a dating app.