In order to prevent pregnancy my wife and I use condoms mostly every time since she doesn’t want to take birth control. She tracks her menstrual cycle very closely so we know when we can get away with doing it without a condom.
However, when we have sex without a condom it just feels way too good and I can’t last longer than a few minutes. And that few minutes is taking it slow. Not very enjoyable for both parties involved.
At this point I almost prefer to use a condom every time because I can last way longer and can make her cum 3-4 times. The orgasms for myself on the other hand are pretty lame as I hardly feel anything with the condom. I desperately want to last longer without a condom on. Any help is welcomed and appreciated.