In the past she’s told me I “should totally ask for BJ’s sometimes” because she like to give me pleasure.
I took her up on the offer one time since she mentioned this but I haven’t since.
I feel guilty asking her because she’s always so busy or has a million things on her mind, we have little ones so after we get them to sleep she wants to get a full nights rest. I don’t want to ask her when she’s on her period cause she’s said in the past how she doesn’t feel sexy so it doesn’t seem like a time to ask then either.
Our sex life has never been better now that we’re past the baby phase, oral is our favorite part and I always make sure to take my time exploring all of her body and getting her to cum as well. We talk about our sex life regularly but I just can’t seem to get past the point of literally just asking.
Any advice or techniques are appreciated.