Been with hubby 9 years and I did just give him a bj but it took an hour and he said he doesn’t know why .. and he did cum but he also said during it that I have to try and give him a different feeling during stroking?? I did swirl stroke, up and down, slow.. fast.. idk what else there is..
Also he did cum and then I just went to clean up a bit and I came back and asked to cuddle.. and then I said can we cuddle or do you need to sleep? He said he needed to sleep (granted he does work in 5 hrs) so I said cuddle night time? And he kinda just made a hmmm sound.. 😞