My boyfriend and I have had sex three times since the November. We are new to this and are trying to figure out what we like. I like fingering better than clit rubbing. I almost had an orgasm, but it was overwhelmed with the sensation of having to pee. Doggystyle makes my hips hurt. He was excited the third so missionary became painful. The side laying position facing each other was great because he can get deeper. Still no orgasm. This was the first time penetration wasn’t painful so I considered it a win. What else can we try?