My gf went to meet a guy she just met.
So my gf has just started a new job in care. She was training in a small group of new staff and has seemed to make a guy friend. They met up on a Sunday and she didn’t tell me anything about it. A friend saw her car in a car park but I didn’t think anything of it. The next day I went to the car park after she finished training and there she was. As I turned around she got out of his car and he drove off. She first tried lying to me but caved in and told me she’d met him after training for a spliff (I don’t smoke). She didn’t even admit she’d met him the day before until I told her she’d been seen. She then told me they had met up two times and she’d only known him for two days! Apparently she wants to make things right and told me she doesn’t want this guy. O’ I forgot to say they are already insta and fb friends and he’s been through and liked loads of her pics. I’m soft and thinking about forgiveness but I’ve just Inherited enough to buy a house and want to make sure I don’t pick the wrong girl to spend the rest of my life with. What should I do? Is she lost? We have together for very close to 4years so I’m reluctant to leave her.