She fulfills all of my other needs (loving, affectionate, etc). The only thing is that I’m not sure if we are compatible, sexually. We have sex very often (whenever we see each other so a few times a week). Specifically, I really like getting head. Before me, she wasnt big on giving oral. Now, She gives them when I want (as long as she gets something in return). There are times where she is really enjoying herself while doing it. She likes giving it, but then there are other times where it feels like she is just doing it because I want it.
I talked about it with her and she said the pubic hair was an issue (I would neglect trimming) and sometimes the smell. I started trimming which also took care of the smell. Later on, she also said that it also felt unfair that she would always “give” first, and sometimes she wanted me to give her to first. She also stated that it felt like I would start sex every time we made out. I didn’t know that I was making it seem that way. I am more horny than her (she takes certain medication that probably kind of dwindles her libido). She has also had sex for a lot longer than me. Quite inexperienced before her.
I think my problem is that I don’t know if we are sexually compatible. I feel like I should be with someone who really loves giving oral, EVERY time. The problem is that I don’t know if this is just an unrealistic expectation from porn. Is it normal for your partner to sometimes just “oblige” at times and not always want to give head?