My (25f) boyfriend (32m) rarely has sex with me and I think its because I have no idea how to makeout and I skip foreplay.
Intimacy is absolutely terrifying to me, and making out has always been one of those things that are way too intimate for me. I’ve always tried to avoid it, and I’ve made it pretty far in life without it being an issue. Now I’m 2 years into a relationship and my boyfriend won’t have sex with me, and I think it’s because the lack of foreplay and making out.
I was in a long term relationship before him, and our foreplay was pretty much just head and then we fucked. We had sex multiple times a day, everyday, for 4 years.
Like…how do you make out? I was with a guy like ten years ago and he made out by like swirling his tongue in my mouth and around mine. Is that it? Is there more? I feel so dumb.
Also we’ve talked about the lack of sex, he just says “idk”