24f with a 26m partner. Issue is no matter how great the sex is I can’t seem to orgasm. Bare in mind he lives with people and I can get quite loud when moaning (apparently) so I think I might be holding myself back as I get louder or thinking about people in the other rooms is making me overthink.
I have had a partner in the past that I reached orgasm multiple times and even squirted once (but always at times when no one was around), then with a FWB situation I never did and now with my current boyfriend I find it hard to.
I have also never been able to make myself orgasm through masturbation as I become overly sensitive and pull back, this can happen with sex too, when I am nearly there I stop my boyfriend sometimes as I get too sensitive, muscles start to ache and it starts to feel uncomfortable.
Does anyone have tips/thoughts on this?