Hello all.
Have an uncomfortable question that I’m hoping someone on here could offer some advice for. I have had issues with Psychological ED for most of my adult life. I don’t have any physical, mechanical problems. I get morning wood that is completely solid.
My problems is: whenever it comes time to do the deed, I psych myself out and often will lose my erection. Not always, but at least 50% of the occasions it will happen.
Fast forward to recently. My girlfriend and I were having a lot of sex in one weekend, and I had the experience of having sex, and still being hard… but I couldn’t come! Like, my dick was still hard, I was enjoying it…. but as much as I tried, I couldn’t finish.
It was kind of depressing. Like, my ED usually has just affected my ability to get an erection. But this time… it was like I couldn’t even come, as much as I was trying to. I’m a little freaked out that this might be a new thing I’ll have to deal with.
Has anyone else dealt with this? Or more broadly speaking, has anyone dealt with Psychological ED and overcome it? (pun)
Thank you, would really appreciate any advice.