My boyfriend (35M) and I (30F) have a great relationship outside of sex which, in my opinion, is one of the most important aspects, because without sex, we’re no different than friends. We get along well, have a lot in common, we love each others mutual friends and our families. The issue is he says I don’t do enough to turn him on. He asks if I’ll dress sexier or wear more lingerie around the house. He complains that I work from home so I never dress up. I usually wear a sweater or button down with a blazer and jeans because I do a lot of Zoom meetings. I want to improve on this but my efforts don’t seem to do much- maybe I don’t know how to “act sexy” lol. Here’s the thing, I’ve never had to. My exes were turned on by just being around me (not in a conceded way, it was just simple- they were always ready to go lol). I bought lingerie that my BF picked out but when I put it on, he said he wishes I would’ve been wearing it sooner. I’m glad he’s upfront with me and communicates this with me but I’m lost. Are there any tips on how to dress sexier (but classy), be more comfortable doing so and any suggestions on a sexy date night or something I can do to get him in the mood? I tried a massage on him but he’s not touchy feely and did not enjoy that. (NOT talking foreplay) thanks in advance!