Hello Guys,
Had first time sex last friday, with a girl I met on a dating app. She was really excited about meeting me and it was clear we would have sex.
I was a virgin before that so I had no experience before and I did not tell her that.
After we had sex I told her that it was actually my first time and after that she suddenly wanted to head home.
The sex itself was 1 hour long I think we both did not come (I am circumsized).
She was really loud but didnt say a word in the whole Interaction. (I asked her a few Times if I should continue what I was doing and she did not reply). She also rolled her eyes to the top and also cuddled really long after the sex with me. So i figured it was not that bad
So a few days later I wanted to ask her if something was wrong about last friday and she replied to me:
“And no it wasn’t like you said anything inappropriate it’s just if you couldn’t tell yk the whole thing wasn’t the most exciting let’s just say that.”
“Things hurt a little physically, which well.”
“it’s probably also about the experience.”
My question is now: why did she not say that I was hurting her and what can I do to prevent this in the future? Or wasnt the Problem that I hurt her, rather that I was just bad at it?
Ty very much in Advance for your answers.
Best Regards
For context: I am 22, she is 24 and it was clear that the arrangement would not be something serious