I’m 26M (soon to be 27) and I don’t really get signs women are interested in me. I understand the classic signs the glancing in your direction, the trying to be around you and making themselves available, smiles, casual touchs of the arm or something, involuntarily moving closer to you, etc…
I get none of these. I’m not oblivious and I try to keep an eye out for these things but I never see any of them. I’m also in shape, go to the gym, and groom. I don’t think it’s my perosnality either as I’m described as helpful, nice, and kind. I don’t really call myself these things but I’ve had co-workers say them about me.
On the negative side I guess. I have had one girl say that I didn’t seem approachable because I didn’t smile and say hi when I saw her. I’ve been making an effort to smile more and greet people but that hasn’t made any difference. I’ve also had a few people describe me as shy.
I don’t really know what to do. I don’t really want to approach random women who, as far as I can tell, seem uninterested but that seems to be what I have to do. So I’m at a lose here at what to do.