A “friend” has a good sex life with her (36f) husband (38m), but recently shared with him that she no longer feels great about letting him finish in her mouth. She says it creates a gag reflex for her when he finishes, and she feels some residue (for lack of a better term) in her throat, even the next day, which bothers her.
He was understanding yet disappointed, since she had always swallowed for him since they began dating. But of course, he agrees that she shouldn’t continue to do anything that she isn’t comfortable with.
What I want to know is, are there any substitutes or “next best things” for situations where the woman isn’t comfortable with the man finishing in her mouth?