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I don’t know if anyone really wanted an update but things got pretty crazy. After my girlfriend stormed off to her parents we spoke again over the phone and she still didn’t believe me and I was tired of it so we agreed to end things. She came and collected her stuff a couple of days later and I thought that would be the end. Then 3 weeks passed and she suddenly comes to my place at night telling me what a fool she had been and claiming she had come to her senses and knows I wasn’t cheating. I was pretty happy to hear that and we had some pretty great make up sex and it seemed problem solved. Then for like a week and a half I started to get very suspicious of this sudden change of heart. How she went from being 100% sure I was having an affair to 100% sure I am not like the flick of a switch. Her behaviour was also off like she was trying too hard to make it up to me, she was never asking me to do any chores like she (completely fairly did before). I was coming home to a girlfriend who had my favourite meal made on the table and dressed up sexy for me which was out of character.
I then confronted her demanding to know why the sudden change, she denied it at first but then admitted that she hired a PI in those 3 weeks she was gone to get proof of me and Lucy having an affair to prove she was right. When in fact he did the opposite when he told her after his weeks of watching that we definetly wasn’t having an affair. This was big of a breach of trust and of my private life so I told her we are over permanently this time. She actually accepted this quite calmly seeing pretty resigned to it. We then parted amicably, She packed and left again but I did speak to her yesterday where she seemed in ok spirits enjoying Christmas with her family and she told me she is getting therapy in the new year to work on her issues and paranoia. And for me well I am all good I thought I would be really broken up about it but I actually feel quite happy and free. Just enjoying Christmas and looking forward to trying to get into the Olympics without all the drama. Oh and to those who thought Lucy might have been into me she has not made any moves on me since the break up at all and their has been no changes in our dynamic. Thanks all who commented.
TL;DR- We broke up, she came back claiming to believe me. Turned out she hired a PI. We permanently broke up over this. We are both doing well.