I (M48) have a big hotwifing kink but not quite sure what to call it. My wife (F38) is also open to the idea of threesomes (MFM) and sharing but neither of us have any interest in the humiliation aspect that comes with cuckolding. More into spit roasting, creampies, DVPs, etc.
I want to share my wife, I want to watch her fuck, I want to sandwich her between my cock and another cock of her choice, and I also want her to feel like she could go out, have fun, and comes home to me to be reclaimed. I find all of that incredibly hot and thrilling, but not ready to call myself a cuck. Are there any specific kinks or lifestyles that fit the above?