My bf just doesnt understand
So we have a mutal friend, lets call him, Booger. So Booger & I have been friends since 2016 & id consider him a close friend. Hes also been friends with my boyfriend as well. So the past 2 times we all have gone out together to the club & booger basically been making my bf do “bets” and the bet is to ask for a girls number???? like what? I found out about the bet because they did it straight in my face. They left me and my friend in a section full of random guys while they were at the bar trying to get the girls number (“for a bet”) So after that, i told booger hes so disrespectful towards me n my bfs relationship & that he has other friends that are single & should do that with them, not my BF. Booger said its a joke n just a bet but no thats just plain rude.
Another incident, booger and my bf were out & i was at home. The same thing happened with the “bet” and i was furious. so TWICE
Yesterday me n my bf had an argument because he wanted to go out like with me, him, & booger. I was fine with going out but felt very triggered by Booger. So i tried to express how i feel about booger to my bf but instead he got mad at me and hasnt spoke to me all day. He said “how did booger disrespect you?” And i wanted to say so much but i felt stuck. I wanted to say “the last time u we’re literally with him you cheated by getting n begging for a girls number” (you can read my previous post for more on that situation ^) Hes ignored all my texts & taking this argument so out of proportion when he didnt even value my thoughts, but instead got mad at me.
Anyways am i in the wrong for being triggered by booger & feel some typa way about him? Or should i just drop it?