I (23F) have only realized this after a couple of one night stands Ive had a month ago. I don’t feel any better after having sex, it feels the same as before doing it. It doesn’t take me to a near climax or near any edging, its benefiting the guy more than me. the only time i remember when i had satisfying sex was when i was emotionally connected with the guy. So i believe that the casual hookups doesn’t work for me anymore. Its fun at first, but it doesn’t feel good after a long time.