Am I wrong for kicking out my husband. We are currently staying at my moms and her husband because while I go on mat leave rent in Toronto just too much for one person. Im currently 38 weeks pregnant and for the last 4 to 5 month he has gone back to heavly drinking. He is stressed from his family back home and down about not being at place in life he thought he would be.
He been drinking and going out parking in parking lots and sleeping. He has blown out his tire near our home i went to go pick him up. The other day I found out that he was 3.5 hours away from home and his car got stuck in a ditch which I then proceeded to call CAA and drive there to make sure he was okay. That night he didnt come into the house using there no parking and he disnt wanna get a ticket as an excuse. Kind you this is now 2am in the morning. Whenever he goes on these drives he never answer my calls or text and I have no clue where he is.
Last night we went to my grandma for xmas dinner and my cousin seen him for the first time. We had a small wedding friends only. Mind you I only talk to my cousin once a year which is at xmas. She stated I was hiding him which seem like it triggered something cause today he was talking about keys that i went to go pick up for my friend from her friend and a sweater from our old place which was my girlfriend. He believes im cheating on him which I dont know why. For the last 5 months he has been stressing me and I have been providing financial for us. I recently just got him a better paying job which he has been working for 3 weeks now. Earlier in the day he got mad about the keys and he was telling me all these things he had made up in his head so i slaped him and told him to leave. When he left i packed the majority of his clothing in a suit case. He then came back home at 12:30am then was stating that he doesnt like me and how my cousin is a better women than me and he see why the wh8te man with her. This is after a 30 minute encounter with her. I got so mad I kicked him and told him he’s turning me into a monster and he needs to leave. It appear like he didnt want to leave cause i told him to take his stuff but he didnt so i brought the suitecase for him. He then proceeded to came back in the house 2 other times to grab stuff. I told him i was sorry i kicked him.
I called him later and there was no answer so i messaged him letting him know we need to figure out what we are doing what what happening because im 2 weeks away from giving birth and he is the one who wanted this not me.
Been married since Last July, got married after 6 months of being together. Am I crazy cause of my hormones? Or is he just being a horriable husband?
TLDR; Been together almost two years now, he has started drinking, thinks im cheating and told me my cousin a better women than I am after a 30 minute encounter with her. I have never put my hand on him before today.