We’ve been together for 2 years. My hair is pretty short anyway, but last year, I used clippers to cut it very short. It grew back to the length I normally have it, and that’s the length I keep it at.
We were talking the other day, and he casually made a comment about how it looked bad. I understand having preferences, but it threw me off to hear that he thought it looked bad. And it has me worried for our future – I don’t want to be with someone who thinks I look bad. The length of my hair was what it would be when my hair thins out, or stops growing as much, and that is something guaranteed to happen. My hair will reach a point where I can do very little with it, and I have no choice but for it to look “bad”.
I’m not usually someone who feels insecure about how I look or worried about my boyfriend’s attraction to me, but this has me worried. I don’t really know what to think right now, or how to deal with these worries.