Hello!
Long time commenter and advice giver. I (M34) do want to validate a thought I have, though.
Recently, an ex (31F) and I reconnected. She has just got out of a long term relationship and I’ve been happily single for 9 years. I’ve dated but life is just too busy.
Recently, she asked to be my fuck buddy and I’m okay with that. However, today, she’s posting about being in another city and she is with a guy. I don’t care if they hook up or not because she’s free to do whatever. I do want to be safe, however, and wanted to confirm if I’m on the right train of thought to want to ask straight up if she’s hooking up with dude. She has an IUD, so they can do it bareback. My worry is STDs. I trust her that she’s clean, but I don’t feel the same for the guy, obviously.
I’m not being creepy for being upfront and asking her the question?
We have a hotel together on New Years and we are going to fuck. I’m just wary about her sleeping around because I don’t want to get something.
I hope I’m explained myself well. Thanks for reading.