I want to have sex, but I feel like I never will be ready for it. I’ve come close to having sex but for some reason I couldn’t go through with it. I don’t know why I just can’t even though I want to. How do I get over this mental block or whatever it is. Not looking for propositions just advice.

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  1. You are placing a lot of emphasis on this time that you couldn’t go through with it. You’re seeing it as some sort of failure when it’s not.

    Reframe this experience into something more positive: you weren’t ready at that time. Maybe the circumstances weren’t right, maybe the person wasn’t right. It was a good thing it didn’t happen then. You learned something about what can make you uncomfortable. When you are ready, you will be ready and if it doesn’t happen then it simply means it wasn’t the right time.

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