What’s the best way to tell a girl in a dating app that I just wanna bang?

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1. “i’m not looking for anything serious”

2. You trying to set up a dick appointment?

3. Just tell her upfront if she wants to hookup.

   Don’t play games or pretend you want something more if all you want is to hook up. I guess asking if she’d like to netflix and chill is a more indirect way?

4. You’re looking for a casual arrangement and not an attachment. Always be honest about that. She may not be into it and that’s OK— she can just say no. But being upfront about it is the right thing to do and sets expectations fairly for both people.

5. Send a dick pic

6. Put in your profile something like “I’m looking for a NSA night” and if you’re willing to go on a date first, your chances will probably increase because (speaking for myself) I like to make sure I vibe in person with someone before engaging in any sexual activity.

   If you’re willing to go on a date first (drinks is enough) then say “I’d like to take you out for drinks and a NSA night”

7. Report to the ship immediately. We’ll bang, okay?

8. Most recently, I was having a normal conversation with a guy on hinge and he adds in the line “Also, bet I can make you cum.”

   That communicated the message pretty clearly to me. I swiftly unmatched afterwards, so idk how successful you will be

9. Honestly, the guy I hooked up with asked me if I could come over to hook up. Idk about other girls but I like how upfront and straight to the point he was. 😂 and the sex was top tier too

10. Just tell her you’re a fuckboi

11. You don’t unless she already has that in her bio. Go ahead and tell her you just want to bang I guarantee you there’s a 98% chance you ain’t gone hear from her again

12. Your only looking to keep it casual. Just looking for a hook up and nothing serious. That tells me your just looking for sex.

13. “Looking for Netflix and Chill”

    Isn’t that what the kids are calling it these days? (Dear god, I sound old)

14. Say this….

    This is straight from my dating profile :

    “I have allot on my plate, not allot of time for anything more meaningful than casual… For now. Looking for authentic people. Fit, fun and real “