I NEED HELP
I’m a 31 yo male who recently got married. I haven’t been able to keep an errection and on the first night, there was no feeling/arousal. Felt numb.
I never has sex before marriage but I did watch porn and id say lot of it. This might be a pure case of PIED but I’m not sure. But it is true that when I watch porn, I get this sensation of arousal that makes me hard and then orgasm. But with my wife, I’m not able to keep an errection and I didn’t even orgasm for first few days. I just won’t go to the point where it feels good to orgasm. Then I tried 5mg cialis and it did help and I did orgasm.
I haven’t watched porn for a month and I won’t watch again ever. This is embarrassing. I’m a fit guy, who works out 3,4 times a week and in a good shape. I remember I get hard with porn but even then, errection would be lost if I didn’t stimulate. I remember in my 20s I used to get hard af but it wasn’t the same later.
If you have any questions, ask me please but I’m wondering will this get to normal with time as I get used to a woman and is there hope? I’m definitely hopeful and think I need to get rid of death drip and train my mind to get aroused with woman. But I’m not sure if errection issues will remain.
Any sincere help would be great.