I have a crush on someone from my classes and I got one of his friends to ask him out for me. He said “um, sure”, he’s very introverted and quiet in class even with his friends.
I think he’s very neutral about me, I gave him a gift for secret Santa which he actually liked quite a bit.
He’s not very active on snap, the convo is not too dry but it’s infrequent. It’s only been two days since I got his snap. He will quadruple text, use all caps, ask me a couple questions.
We were talking about music and a no AirPods rule in one of our classes and he disagreed with me on the no airpods rule. When I mentioned some music artists he said he used to listen to one but felt he was overplayed.
People always say that if a guy is interested you’ll know so yeah. Probably not interested.
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You are probably right. He probably just views you as a friend
Guys typically don’t do well with picking up signals. They hardly know how to express interest. Sometimes you have yo hit a guy on the head w an inflatable hammer.
If you’re attracted to him, then for god’s sake, flirt with him. Ask him to meet you for coffee or whatever. Maybe go for a walk. Go shopping.
Ask about his previous relationships, if he has any siblings, what his parents are like, what it was like growing up. Ask about his hobbies, what he likes to do in his spare time, his ambitions, places he wants to visit. Ask him to send you his favorite songs. Then you can send yours.
You don’t have to agree on everything. But you should at least enjoy each other’s company.